When I Ask
Message by:
Pastor Terry Crawford
Covenant Church
Shepherdstown, WV
What are you (people in general), afraid of/concerned about when asking for an answer from God about a personal situation or need?
Three areas of fear/concern when asking God for something:
God is Uncontrollable.
Job 38-42
Romans 11:33-36
Oh, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable his judgments, and his paths beyond tracing out! “Who has known the mind of the Lord? Or who has been his counselor?” “Who has ever given to God, that God should repay them?” For from him and through him and for him are all things. To him be the glory forever! Amen.
1 Corinthians 2:10-16
these are the things God has revealed to us by his Spirit. The Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God. For who knows a person’s thoughts except their own spirit within them? In the same way no one knows the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. What we have received is not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may understand what God has freely given us. This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual realities with Spirit-taught words. The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit. The person with the Spirit makes judgments about all things, but such a person is not subject to merely human judgments, for, “Who has known the mind of the Lord so as to instruct him?” But we have the mind of Christ.
My plan is the best plan - God doesn’t have my best interest in mind.
What if you gain the whole world and lose your soul? Mark 8:36
Better to be blind, or lame, or limbless than spend eternity far from God.
Rather be a door keeper in the house of God than dwell in tent of sinners.
I know what plans I have for you…
God is uncontrollable, but we can know his heart and have the mind of Christ.
Fear hearing “No” - God says no sometimes. (My plan is the best plan lie.)
Fear it won’t be what I want to hear but what I need to hear.
Fear that in my selfishness/ humanness/ weakness/ impatience I want what I want more than I want what God wants.
Fear my answer won’t be the way I imagined or hoped for. Different isn’t bad. Bring pain. Pain isn’t the absence of God, it’s an opportunity for God.
Fear the answer (yes or no) will push me out of my comfort zone. And that I might fail his testing or in the new area he is moving me.
I am Incompetent.
Luke 18:9-14
To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’ “But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’ “I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”
Hebrews 4:14-16
Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
Romans 8:26-27
In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.
You are incompetent if answered prayer depends on you, but it doesn’t.
Jesus is our High Priest and Intercessor, the
Fear I’m asking the wrong question or the wrong way. I’m worried worry that I am not praying in faith because I have those fears.
Fear my living outside God’s will makes me unworthy.
Fear I’ll be impatient and run toward my own answer, missing his timing
Fear I will not hear Him right/ understand/ interpret the answer correctly. Or misinterpret the answer. Doubt and fear of taking wrong action. Missing God’s will.
Fear I miss God altogether (depart from me)
I am Unworthy.
Luke 5:8
When Simon Peter saw this, he fell at Jesus’ knees and said, “Go away from me, Lord; I am a sinful man!”
1 Peter 2:9-10
But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.
Moses' reply: "Please, Lord, I have never been eloquent . . . send someone else "(Exodus 4:10, 13). After witnessing the presence of the Lord in the temple, Isaiah's response was, "Woe is me for I am ruined! Because I am a man of unclean lips "(Isaiah 6:5). After hearing rumours speculating that he might be the Christ, John the Baptist's reply was, "I am not fit to untie the thong of His sandals "(Luke. 3:16). When the apostle Peter recognized that he was sitting in the same boat as God Incarnate, he pleaded with Jesus, "Depart from me Lord, for I am a sinful man "(Luke. 5:8).
We are unworthy in comparison to a Holy God, but He places value on us. We search for validation and answered prayer is our pat on the back, or our “I love you”. God gave his love, his son, his spirit, his words, his eternity, his grace and invites us into a relationship with him (liken to a bride), how much more validation do you have to have? How wanted and loved and full of worth do you need beyond what God has already done for you? He’s loved you from before you knew him, he’s provided for you, cared for you, courted you and has brought you to the alter to spend eternity with him. Does that look worthless to you?
Recognizing how great God is in comparison to your humanness is not a sin or bad. It should produce humility which God honors and rewards. But when your feeling of unworthiness negates the truths of God, then that is a problem. Guilt is not what God wants you to live in. He never has wanted that and never will.
Dog poops on the floor needs correction. But you don’t constantly walk around with the paper and threatening him. He will live in fear, a broken spirit and in the feeling of being unloved. That is not correction, that is abuse.
Fear God will find me unworthy. He gets fed up with me and my messes. Will answer me with the opposite to punish me for bad things in my past. Not close enough to him.
Fear I’m bothering him with my needs that, in the big scheme of things, are little.
Fear I don’t have the right to really expect God to hear me. So much guilt. Even that God wouldn’t want me to even ask for it.
Fear God doesn’t answer at all.
HOW TO REQUEST GUIDANCE
1.) Believe God cares about the details of my life.
Matthew. 6:31-32
So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.
Hebrews 4:14-16
Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
I can’t teach you how to believe, or make you believe. Those who have eyes/ears.
2.) Ask God specific questions.
Philippians 4:6-7
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
This isn’t to help God know the specifics but to help you know and understand when you get the answer. Write them down and celebrate when God answers.
3.) Expect God to answer!
James 1:5-8
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That person should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Such a person is double-minded and unstable in all they do.
CS Lewis said, “Prayer doesn’t change God; prayer changes me.” If I’m in a boat and I reach out with the boathook and pull, am I pulling the land to me? Or am I pulling myself closer to the shore? This is what prayer does for us.
Whatever answer God may give you or whatever way He may deliver it will always come secondary to your relationship with Him.
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